disappointment is not a good look on me

Once again, I'm disappointed at the prospect of a new relationship. I'm not happy about the idea of always coming second to my man's work. I thought I had finally found a great guy who was tall, intelligent, cute, funny, and ambitious...maybe a little too ambitious. Should I expect to have to take a back seat to my man's career in exchange for having a man with ambition? I mean, my father is ambitious, but he always has time for me--it's how I know I'm special. Despite his work, I am certain that if he had to choose, he'd choose me. With this new guy, I'm not so sure, and it sours my feelings toward a prospective relationship with him. He suggested several times that I call out of work just so I could visit him in Delaware on his business trip, but I can't even get him to text me back during the day if he's "busy". I'm just annoyed right now because I have so much to offer and I feel like every guy I meet realizes it only after I've decided to move on. I'm not ready to move on, but I NEED to talk to him consistently to build a strong connection. Talking to him 10 minutes a day or texting him 3 times a day is hardly enough to build the connection that I want and need. Sigh...what should I do? I'm not ready to give up, but I don't know if its going to get any better. *Sigh*